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Giant Buddga

A Beta Man

believes that acting with integrity not only leads to success but also leaves the world a better place.

Lighthouse on the Ocean

A Beta Man

has enough self worth that he doesn’t put down others in order to feel good about himself.

Hong Kong Harbour

A Beta Man

is confident enough in his own humanity that he doesn’t need to dominate, control, or limit others based on their gender or ethnicity.

Sunset

A Beta Man

cares about being a better person and actively works to improve himself.

Honolulu

A Beta Man

finds romantic and sexual partners who are equally excited about him as he is about them (and nobody has be convinced, manipulated or tricked into it).

Jase in Hawaii

A Beta Man

has friendships and colleagues based on mutual care and interest, not just because they can give him something in return.

Long Hallway

A Beta Man

doesn’t feel the need to be extroverted all the time (or maybe ever!)

Double Rainbow

A Beta Man

doesn’t define others by their gender or sexuality so isn’t afraid of questioning or evaluating his own.

I am a white male who can pass as heteronormative in public, which means I have a lot of privilege and safety, and there’s nothing I can do to change that. The only thing I can change is what I choose to do with that power. I know that not […]

What “Being a Man” Means to Me

Most people will agree that communication is one of the fundamental building blocks of a successful relationship. On our show and in our blog we’ve talked about various ways of improving communication, including understanding love languages, non-violent communication, mirroring, and many other techniques. We have personally used (and still use!) […]

The Triforce of Communication

It seems like every day there is a new study published about sex, relationships or (dun dun dun!) the differences between the sexes. Without fail, there is some piece of data that is thrilling or exciting, but usually it’s just playing into what we already think as a culture. Why does […]

“Science” Can Be Misleading

This past year has led me to discover the philosophy of minimalism and fall in love with it. It started initially with some basic spring cleaning, which led to a friend recommending The Minimalists podcast, then a 30-day minimalism challenge where I got rid of over 400 items, and it has continued […]

Relationship Minimalism

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